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Civilization’s Erotic Discontents
If you want to talk safely about the topic of sexual preferences, you must begin with the following disclaimer: “I don’t care what people do in …” In what? The privacy of their homes? Insofar as they’re old enough to … Continue reading →
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Tagged adolescence and the popularity nightmare, adult credibility, bad faith about erotic desire, bad faith and eros, bad faith and erotic life, bad faith in argument, being asked to dance, boy-girl relations and patriarchy, Butler’s Bodies that Matter, Butler’s Gender Trouble, Butler’s Giving an Account of Oneself, capturing the moral high ground, civilization-authorized desire, civilization’s desire to live, civilization’s eros, civilization’s lack of desire to live, competition for erotic prestige, culture-authorized desire, desire to go on living, desire to persevere in one’s own being, disvaluing heterosexuality, disvaluing homosexuality, eros and civilization, eros in history, eros in the state and the individual, erotic bad faith, erotic desire, erotic discontent, erotic life as competitive, erotic playing field, erotic prestige, erotic rivalry, erotic safety, establishing credibility, feminist jargon, feminist passwords, feminist signals, feminist slogans, feminist theoretician, forms of oppression, fulfillment of bodily purpose, fulfillment of life purpose, heterosexual advantage in Western civilization, heterosexual advantages, heterosexual prestige, heterosexuality and homosexuality mutually disvaluing other sexualities, heterosexuality associated with oppression, homosexual competition, homosexual privilege in classical times, how to talk about private matters, indifference to what people do, internal and external erotic competitiveness, Judith Butler, lesbian social dancing, logical possibilities of sexual combinations, loss of desire to live, Nietzsche’s revaluation of values, non-standard erotic combinations, non-standard erotic possibilities, not being asked to dance, one way open-mindedness, oppression studies, outranking erotic rivals, patriarchy, patriarchy racism colonialism, philosophic facts of life, Plato’s republic, Plato’s state as the soul writ large, playing field in the game of life, popularity contest, pretending not to care, private life and public life, pulling moral rank, reality based discussion, reasons to live, restoring the desire to live, reviving the desire to live, rhetorical tactics in seduction, rhetorical tactics in sexual choice, rivalry between man-woman courtship and same-sex courtship, rivalry between same sex attraction and opposite sex attraction, rules of the game of life, same-sex monogamy, sexual preferences, social space for man/woman romance, Spinoza’s conatus, stakes in the game of life, the erotic territory, the game of life, the last shall be first, the trajectory of desire, there are no neutrals, trustworthiness in discussion, unfair erotic advantage, valuing non-heterosexuality, wallflower, Western Civilization, what people do in private
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Introduction to Womanhood
Lately, I’ve been going through a medley of sources on Woman’s condition. Est-ce que vous ne plaignez pas le sort des femmes? asks a character in a play by Alfred de Musset way back in 1833. Do you not pity … Continue reading →
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Tagged academic feminism, achieving one’s life project, cultural norms, cultural norms and women, current feminism, current feminist theory, Dumped: Stories of Women Unfriending Women She Writes Press 2015, external resistance, fallback plans, feminism and literature, feminist problematic, fiction as the mirror of reality, fictional short stories, fictional stories, foundations of feminism, gender and power relations, Gender Trouble by Judith Butler, get in touch with your feelings, getting one’s bearings, idealization and real-life, identifying one’s life project, identifying one’s predominant desire, ideology and real women, inescapable duty, inner resistance, language and gender relations, le sort des femmes, Les Caprices de Marianne by Alfred de Musset, life-shaping preference, light on the path for women, living a sincere life, living one’s story, living with purpose, living without purpose, mapping the feminist problematic, men and women in contemporary culture, men and women in present culture, mother-daughter love, mother-daughter relations, narrative and objectivity, negotiating one’s desires, negotiating one’s preferences, nineteenth-century fiction, obscuring the feminist problematic, oppression and dominance, patriarchy, pay as you go, perfection and reality, pity for men, pity for women, Plan A, second wave feminism, shaping a human life, shaping one’s life, sharing purposful lives, sharing purposive lives, sharing stationary lives, Short Story Masterpieces by American Women Writers Dover 2014, Simone de Beauvoir, Simone de Beauvoir’s The Second Sex, stationary lives, status of men, sympathy earned, sympathy for women, terrain of resistances, testing one’s sincerity, the female condition, the male condition, the romantic emotion, the search for purpose, the story of one’s life, the test of real life, theoretical thinking about women, third wave feminism, unbiased narrator, victimized women, woman’s condition, woman’s lot, womanhood, women and ideology, women and power relations, women and psychological theories, women dumped by women, women helping women, women misleading women, women supporting women, women unfriending women, women writers, women’s passivity, World of Desire
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Moses and Me
Moses and Me I never liked Moses. Or more precisely, I never felt drawn to the Biblical figure. For one thing, he seems to me unromantic. He has no significant woman in his life (unless you count the sister and … Continue reading →
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Tagged anguish of Moses, Avivah Gottlieb Zorniber’s Moses: A Human Life, bad faith, Biblical characters, chosen people, co-religionists, compromised self, derivative selves, divided self, envy of Jews, father figures, God as design feature, God as energy, God as impersonal, God as laws of nature, God as laws of physics, God as Person, hatred of Jews, Henry M. Rosenthal, identifying across genders, identifying with Moses, incest, Jewish assignment, Jewish mission, Jewish self-hatred, Jewish survival, Jews as privileged, lovers in Scripture, marital love, mission of Moses, Moses, parricide, patriarchs in Genesis, patriarchy, personal God, psychoanalysis, Sarah Rebecca and Rachel, self-actualization, self-concealment, self-deception, self-loss, self-realization, self-unfolding, taking oneself seriously, true love, wives of patriarchs
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Apologies to Kierkegaard
Apologies to Kierkegaard In a previous post or two of “Dear Abbie,” I found myself sharply critical – denunciatory even – of Soren Kierkegaard (1813-1855). He is the Danish philosopher/theologian who is still studied by serious people today, both inside … Continue reading →
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Tagged ancestral curse, anthropology, apology, Archiving, Ardor, Australian anthropology, Biographical researchers, biography, Bordello, Change of mind, Cold feet, Condemnations, Cursing God, Danish philosophy, Danish theology, dating, Dead and gone, Dead but not gone, Death and forgetting, Death and loss, Decent husband, Definitive biography, denunciation, embarrassment, Engagement to marry, Exotic, Exploited servant, fallen woman, Family curse, Far away places, Fear of intimacy, Fear of syphilis, Feminine pride, first love, genius, Good wife, Having enough faith, Having more faith, Healthy-minded girls, Hidden agenda, House of ill repute, idealization, idealizing women, imperfect world, Instability, Insufficient faith, intimacy, Joakim Garff's Kierkegaard’s Muse: The Mystery of Regine Olsen, Joakim Garff’s Kierkegaard A Biography, Kierkegaard biography, Last energies, Letting one down, Lifelong ardor, Loner, Marriage proposal, Masturbation, Merchant class, Mere cleverness, Mind Control, Morbid tangles, Offenses against God, original sin, Paper trail, patriarchy, philosopher, Poor shepherd boy, Pre-marital cold feet, Preserving memories, Prosperous merchant, Protestant culture, Psychic tangles, Regine Olson, Respectable families, Reversed judgment, Reversed opinion, Romantic memory, Running in the red, Second thoughts, Secret heart, self-protection, Sensitive loner, Serious thinker, Shotgun wedding, significant other, Soren Kierkegaard, Soul capture, Spiritual sincerity, Std, Straightforwardness, Sufficient faith, Syphilis, The unseen, theologian, theology, To jilt, Trivializing first love, Truthful, truthfulness, Tying the knot, Unavailable girls, Uneasy conscience, Unforgotten, Unseen witnesses, vulnerability, Whorehouse, Withdrawn condemnation
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“Rudeness”
“Rudeness” A few years ago I was riding from terminal to terminal on an airport bus in Texas. By the time I climbed on board, the bus had standing room only. I was hanging on a strap, keeping my hand … Continue reading →
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Tagged academic dinner parties, action theory, ad hominem argument, Aristotle, Aristotle’s Ethics, Australian philosophical life, baiting, belief systems, Bullying, Cambridge University, chivalry, civil life, collegial relations, collegiality, conviviality, courtesy, desperate straits, dinner parties, effrontery, faculty wives, false consciousness, frustrated chivalry, gallantry, gentlemen, governing charters, hegemony, Hobbes’s Leviathan, human history, idealization of men, idealization of women, impertinence, incivility, ingratitude, insults, Jew-baiting, kid stuff, ladies, ladies first, launching a movement, life and death struggle, macro-history, Male Power, male supremacy, manners, manners and rules, masked insults, membership dues, membership roster, minority group, minority status, name-calling, new political movement, number one, obscenity, Oppression, oppressive system, ostracism, outspokenness, patriarchy, Peterhouse, philosophers from Peterhouse, philosophical abstractions, Political Movements, politics of the future, power smiles, powerlessness, precision in action, pretense, privacy, private sensibilities, rape, rape threat, rule of law, rule of the stronger, rules, sensitivity, ship christening, social complexity, social courage, social dilemmas, social empowerment, social ordeals, social patterns, social reciprocity, social reprisals, state of nature, Texans, the Other, the right act, toothy smiles, tyranny of the majority, U.K., unfair advantage, virtues, vulgarity, war of all against all, women & children first
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“Victims”
“Victims” The other day, Jerry and I attended an event bringing together people whose professions circle around religion. There were ministers, scholars and theologians in academic departments, of Religion or Theology, students in seminaries and nuns in street clothes. (Nuns … Continue reading →
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Tagged anger, argument, authority, betrayal, brute power, chivalry, debate, diplomacy, ecumenical, equality, erotic power, Feminism, functional power, Gender, identity, inequality, intellectual power, moral blackmail, Nietzsche, nuns, nuns' habits, patriarchy, Plato's Republic, politics of gender, power of the weak, power struggle, reductionism, religion, rich husbands, social forces, Socrates, theology, Thrasymachus, top dog, underdog, unisex, yin and yang
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