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How the Story Ends
Early in 2025, I posted a column titled “The Story Didn’t End.” The story referenced began with an incident in late May of 2024 in the stable where I used to ride. It was no ordinary hour in the saddle, … Continue reading →
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Tagged a letter never received, atrocities of October 7, break in a personal relation, bringing heaven down to earth, candor and forgiveness, clarifying correspondence, clarifying letters, condescension toward Israeli victims, condescension toward victims, educated people’s skepticism, facing the situation, forgiveness, getting to the bottom of a rift, girls and horses, global anti-semitism, happy ending, honesty in a quarrel, honesty with horses, horse to human communication, horse to rider communication, horse whisperer, horse whisperer and honesty, horses in human culture, human to animal communication, inadvertent harm, inconclusive ending, indifference to victims, keeping the herd safe, lead mare’s aversion to violence, lead mare’s main task, longest hatred, lost in translation, love of horses, mediating a quarrel, moral courage, moral obligation to clarify a quarrel, moral obligation to teach, mother-daughter friendship, mother-daughter relations, negotiating a quarrel, negotiating misunderstandings, novelistic resolutions, painful memories, repairing a quarrel, repairing the situation, repairing the world, risking disappointment, silence as a statement, sincere religious sense, story’s end, sympathy with the jihad, tikkun olam, unfinished story, unhappy ending, waiting for heaven, walking away with closure, well maintained stable
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Introduction to Womanhood
Lately, I’ve been going through a medley of sources on Woman’s condition. Est-ce que vous ne plaignez pas le sort des femmes? asks a character in a play by Alfred de Musset way back in 1833. Do you not pity … Continue reading →
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Tagged academic feminism, achieving one’s life project, cultural norms, cultural norms and women, current feminism, current feminist theory, Dumped: Stories of Women Unfriending Women She Writes Press 2015, external resistance, fallback plans, feminism and literature, feminist problematic, fiction as the mirror of reality, fictional short stories, fictional stories, foundations of feminism, gender and power relations, Gender Trouble by Judith Butler, get in touch with your feelings, getting one’s bearings, idealization and real-life, identifying one’s life project, identifying one’s predominant desire, ideology and real women, inescapable duty, inner resistance, language and gender relations, le sort des femmes, Les Caprices de Marianne by Alfred de Musset, life-shaping preference, light on the path for women, living a sincere life, living one’s story, living with purpose, living without purpose, mapping the feminist problematic, men and women in contemporary culture, men and women in present culture, mother-daughter love, mother-daughter relations, narrative and objectivity, negotiating one’s desires, negotiating one’s preferences, nineteenth-century fiction, obscuring the feminist problematic, oppression and dominance, patriarchy, pay as you go, perfection and reality, pity for men, pity for women, Plan A, second wave feminism, shaping a human life, shaping one’s life, sharing purposful lives, sharing purposive lives, sharing stationary lives, Short Story Masterpieces by American Women Writers Dover 2014, Simone de Beauvoir, Simone de Beauvoir’s The Second Sex, stationary lives, status of men, sympathy earned, sympathy for women, terrain of resistances, testing one’s sincerity, the female condition, the male condition, the romantic emotion, the search for purpose, the story of one’s life, the test of real life, theoretical thinking about women, third wave feminism, unbiased narrator, victimized women, woman’s condition, woman’s lot, womanhood, women and ideology, women and power relations, women and psychological theories, women dumped by women, women helping women, women misleading women, women supporting women, women unfriending women, women writers, women’s passivity, World of Desire
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