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Atonement and Forgiveness
This week, when Jewish time has been flowing between the New Year 5781 and the sacrosanct Day of Atonement, I have asked a couple of people I know for forgiveness. It’s the time of year when this is required, for … Continue reading →
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Tagged accepting the apology, adult life choices, anticipating trouble, apologizing, asking forgiveness, asking pardon, Barnard College, college friendships, conditions for forgiveness, conditions for prayer, courtship signs of trouble, crocodile tears, Day of Atonement, Days of Awe, divine calling halt, divine demand, divine exclusion and inclusion, Divine intervention, divine rebuke, divine refusal, divine roadblock, ex-friends, expressing anger, fake contrition, feeling obligated, forgiving injuries, friendships after college, generosity and friendship, generosity in lost friendship, generous forgiveness, genuine contrition, getting presentable to God, getting right with God, giving forgiveness, giving pardon, God saying stop, God’s absence, God’s presence, God’s withdrawal, holy day, holy week, hurt feelings, insensitivity, Jewish time, knowing what one did wrong, losing or risking status, lost friendship, lost youth, loving reactions, making peace, marital negotiations, moral competition, moral confrontation, moral hindsight, moral self-understanding, moral stakes, moral struggle, not invited to the party, novelistic plotline, overcoming resentment, points for trying, politics of experience, psychic wounds, psychoanalytic lore, psychoanalytic understanding, red flags in marriage, reflective repentance, relationship red flags, repairing past wrongs, repairing the world, repairing wrong, resolving life complexities, retrospective moral insight, retrospective moral self-insight, retrospective regrets, retrospective self-judgment, retrospective self-understanding, Rosh Hashanah, self knowledge and repentance, self-definition and premature self-definition, sending God a letter, sense of duty, sense of urgency, Shekinah, snubbed socially, social status, spiritual cleansing, the beautiful people, transcending resentment, understanding one’s misdeed, understanding relationships, unrepaired injuries, victim and victimizer, wounding another, Yom Kippur, youthful injuries, youthful quarrels
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Collegiality
Collegiality It’s one of the most precious chances life offers: to be a team player, a cooperator in a venture, a fellow worker in a joint work. Nothing could be more fun than this sharing of skilled seriousness. Student … Continue reading →
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Tagged Abigail L. Rosenthal's "A Good Look at Evil", academic colleagues, academic quarrels, allies, anguish of parents, broken friendship, casing the target, children in peril, colleagues, cooperating, deaths of parents, defamatory fictions, determined enemy, divorces, enjoying differences, fellow worker, frightening diagosis, having fun, heartbreak, intellectual struggles, irreparable quarrels, joint work, knowing where to strike, longterm friends, lost friendship, malevolent intentions, objective roles, objective rules, personal struggles, philosophical colleagues, righteous combat, rites of passage, rules of the game, search for truth, senior colleague, shared quest, shared skills, state of grace, striking the vulnerable, student life, targeting a weakness, volleyball, weddings, work projects, young adulthood
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