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“Seizing the Narrative”
“Seizing the Narrative” Long ago, I waited in New York City for a promised letter from Paris that never came. My first love, not a good correspondent, nor a good keeper of promises, was a communist. Not a party member, … Continue reading
Posted in Culture, Desire, dialectic, Erotic Life, Femininity, history of ideas, Ideology, life and death struggle, Male Power, Memoir, Philosophy, Political, Psychology, Race, Sexuality, Social Conventions, The Problematic of Woman
Tagged Abul Ala Mawdudi, Andre Philip, bourgeois, British Pakistanis, communism, Critique de la raison dialectique, Deborah Baker, delusions, Fidelista, humiliation, In the Land of Invisible Women: A Female Doctor's Journey in the Saudi Kingdom, Maajid Nawaz, Margaret Marcus, martyrdom, Maryam Jameelah, middle-class milieu, Muslim, narrative, New Left, psyche, psychoanalysis, racism, radical, Radical: My Journey Out of Islamist Extremism, Sartre, sexual self-respect, skinheads, social gauntlets, The Convert: A Tale of Exile and Extremism, theory of history, therapy, utopian, virginity, world history
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“Women Friends”
“Women Friends” The Ariadne’s Thread that connects one episode of one’s life to the next is provided by our women friends – the ones to whom our stories can be told. I have a high school friend (let us call … Continue reading
Posted in Academe, Art, Culture, Femininity, Feminism, Friendship, Gender Balance, life and death struggle, Literature, Philosophy, Psychology, relationships, Social Conventions, The Examined Life, The Problematic of Woman
Tagged "Three Coins in the Fountain", 1950's, Ariadne's Thread, beauty, bitterness, D.H. Lawrence, diaphram, Ernest Hemingway, female relationships, Feminism, ideology, Italians, jeune fille en fleure, literary club, Marcel Proust, Mary McCarthy, mental breakdown, Mr. Right, public feminists, Samuel Butler, The Group, The Left, virginity, women friends, wunderkind, youth, zen
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“A Woman’s Honor”
“A Woman’s Honor” In Europe in the 1920’s, when everybody suddenly discovered they were “modern,” my mother was importuned by a young man to be “modern” in the way of most interest to him. When her answer was negative, he … Continue reading
Posted in Culture, Desire, Erotic Life, Femininity, Feminism, Gender Balance, Sexuality, The Problematic of Woman
Tagged anthropology, Derek Freeman, existentialism, Freud, James Baldmin, Margaret Mead, modern woman, Norman Mailer, normative, orgasm, post modernism, post-modern, power relations, Samoa, Samoan, sex, sociobiologists, sociobiology, South Sea islands, transgressive, unconscious, virginity, woman's honor
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Christians, Jews, and The Great Rift
Christians, Jews, and The Great Rift I prefer to think of that world-historical-fault-line as a long, reparable misunderstanding. Whether or not that’s the right view, personally I want to patch it up. Yet I recall a Jewish scholar, speaking at … Continue reading →