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Red Letter Day

Posted on October 8, 2019 by Abigail

Red Letter Day In recent columns, I’ve alluded to reversals of fortune, a succession of them, coming in the form of rejection letters. Two came from senior editors who turned down an article, controversial and breaking new ground, which was … Continue reading →

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Is Virtue Rewarded?

Posted on May 30, 2017 by Abigail

Is Virtue Rewarded? The other day, Jerry brought me a book for nighttime reading titled Pamela; or, Virtue Rewarded. It’s an 18th century classic by Samuel Richardson but that’s not why he gave it to me. He knows I like … Continue reading →

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“The Delicacy of Women”

Posted on June 9, 2015 by Abigail

The Delicacy of Women There is a scene in Sartre’s magnum opus, Being and Nothingness, the book by which he influenced several generations of young people who wanted to be numbered among the existentialists. A man and a woman are … Continue reading →

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“Christianity, Judaism, and Women”

Posted on January 2, 2014 by Abigail

“Christianity, Judaism, and Women” I don’t know how you feel about this, but I take for granted that a religion represents (among other things) an erotic style. If I were to convert to another religion, I would be changing the … Continue reading →

Posted in Academe, Culture, Desire, Erotic Life, Faith, Femininity, Gender Balance, life and death struggle, Literature, Masculinity, nineteenth-century, Philosophy, Political, relationships, Sexuality, Social Conventions, The Problematic of Woman | Tagged Beatrice Portinari, chivalry, Christian idealized woman, Christian woman, Christianity, courtship, Dante, desire, erotic life, eternal feminine, Faust, Goethe, Gretchen, Jewish woman, Judaism, lech lecha, Leo Bronstein, men and women, nature of desire, Rachel at the well, religion, sex, The Covenant, Women | Leave a comment

“Make It Fun”

Posted on June 26, 2013 by Abigail

Thank you, Judy, for going to New Guinea and bringing back this amazing story, for us to reflect on. A propos: I once asked my mother why she thought men used to live so much longer and now they were … Continue reading →

Posted in Culture, Gender Balance, Political, Sexuality, Social Conventions | Tagged anthropology, fun, men and women, New Guinea | 2 Comments

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