Tag Archives: lifelong friendships
The Gang’s All Here
In honor of the new year, I’ve been catching up by phone with some of the friendships that have lasted for the long term. One friend has been in my life since we were both students at the now-defunct High … Continue reading →
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Tagged "the gang's all here", "Three Coins in the Fountain", a woman's personal force, afterlife reunion, being good at being a woman, cafe chats with women friends, class reunion, collegial friends, comparing notes in heaven, comparing notes in the afterlife, confiding in friends, designing your heaven, discussing life's big questions with friends, dream romance, envying viriginity, eternal friends, experimental youth, femininity and youth, femininity and masculinity, finding a husband, fortune's favorite, friends as life witnesses, friends from way back when, friends gone before, friends in good times and bad, friends who were kids together, friends you want to meet again, Fulbright friends, Fulbright in Paris, growing up and liking it, herstory, high school friends, High School of Music and Art, horse riding with friends, how life worked out for classmates, in search of lost time, integrity is more fun, keeping one's friends, keeping one's honor, keeping virginity, landing on one's feet, life forces that overwhelm, life review, life's plateaus, life's regrets, life's roadblocks, lifelong friends, lifelong friendships, lost friendships, marrying before graduation, outgrowing childhood friends, personal heaven, preperation for life, reflections in heaven, romance and reality, securing your story, seeing friends in heaven, senior panic to marry, sharing life chapters with friends, spinster and old maid, spiritual surrender, surviving the storms of life, taking a side-path, the biological plight of women, the gang's not all here, the meaning of life and love, the price of integrity, the pursuit of wisdom, timeless talks with friends, timeless talks with women friends, tragic flaw, unprepared for reality, vulnerability of women, what happened to classmates, wise parental friends, women's biological clock, young girls' dreams
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Friendship’s End
What else is there to record in a life except its possibilities for friendship? With what else could the political art be concerned? How else to measure a society or its relations between the sexes? I am in the midst … Continue reading →
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Tagged a southern lady, abandoned by friends, avoiding cynicism, becoming one's mother, blocking transcendence, bridging differences, brink of womanhood, bubble of privilege, cold hospitality, coming of age, damaged friendship, devout atheist, ego and friendship, ending a friendship, fearing a friend, feeling abandoned, female rivalry, feminine coming of age, feminine happiness, friendship and political differences, friendship and relations between the sexes, Fulbright scholars, girlhood and adulthood, girls and mothers, girls coming of age, group mores, healthy friendship, hopes of reunion, idealism disappointed, importance of friendship, lifelong friendships, maternal coldness, maternal hatred, mother daughter relations, newlywed shocks, philosophical friends, politics and friendship, providential coincidence, rationalizing pogroms, religious bullying, riding roughshod, romantic longing, shared past, social expectations, social ranking, testing someone's tolerance, transcendence and feminity, trendy anti-semitism, true love, unshared future, women friends, women victimizing women, worldliness versus idealism, worldly skills, young Americans in Paris, young girls in flower, youthful hopes
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