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Bad Faith at Sartre’s Cafe
Abbie is away this week getting treatments in California. This column was originally posted on December 7, 2021, and continues to be timely. ______________________ It may be of interest to note that post-World War II feminism (the “second … Continue reading
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Bad Faith at Sartre’s Cafe
Bad Faith at Sartre’s Café It may be of interest to note that post-World War II feminism (the “second wave”) was written-into-being by Simone de Beauvoir, a gifted French philosopher, in The Second Sex (1949). It was conscientiously researched and … Continue reading
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Overheard at the Café
Overheard at the Café Among the rewards of my composing this column at the café where I’m what the French call an habituée, is that I get to overhear scenes from other people’s real lives. The café meets my need to … Continue reading
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