Monthly Archives: January 2022

Wedding Anniversary

Posted on January 25, 2022 by Abigail

Wedding Anniversary Thursday, January 20th, was the 23rd anniversary of the day Jerry and I got married. In rabbinic tradition, God makes marriages. In fact, that would be the chief thing He does. I certainly wasn’t looking for a … Continue reading →

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So How Was Our Trip to California?

Posted on January 18, 2022 by Abigail

So How Was Our Trip to California? By now, we’ve been home from California for a week. But what an odd five days we had there! I’ll give you the condensed version. For once, there were no missed connections between … Continue reading →

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It’s Not All About Psychology

Posted on January 11, 2022 by Abigail

It’s Not All About Psychology We were in Phoenix, waiting for the connecting flight to Philadelphia, when we noticed a young couple and their little girl on the seats across the aisle from us. They were a charming sight. The … Continue reading →

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Book Matters

Posted on January 4, 2022 by Abigail

Book Matters Not God’s Type: An Atheist Academic Lays Down Her Arms By Holly Ordway This book was first brought to my attention by the writer Johan Herrenberg, who wondered whether it was another book by a woman in the … Continue reading →

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