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Monthly Archives: October 2014
“Gettysburg”
“Gettysburg” Last week included Jerry’s birthday and he determined that the most desirable present would be an overnight visit and guided tour of the Gettysburg battlefield. Naturally I would have gone along with whatever Jerry wanted to do on his … Continue reading
Posted in Action, Culture, History, life and death struggle, Masculinity, nineteenth-century, Political, Psychology, relationships, Sociobiology, The Problematic of Men, War
Tagged Abraham Lincoln, American History, battlefield, bayonettes, casualities, chess, choreography, Civil War, courage, fate and providence, fortitude, George G. Meade, Gettysburg, Gettysburg Address, glory, historic tours, historical memory, honesty, honor, Joshua Chamberlain, Little Round Top, manliness, martial arts, military cemetery, military history, Monument of the State of North Carolina, nobility, passion, Pickett's Charge, prudence, public monuments, Robert E. Lee, slaughter, soldiers, strategy, tactics, tragedy, Union and Confederate, United States, vainglory, valor, violence, war games, war memorials
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“Blue Jeans”
“Blue Jeans” I may be wrong, but it’s my sincere belief that I was the first woman north of Greenwich Village to put on blue jeans for daily wear in Manhattan. At least, when I began the practice, it was … Continue reading
Posted in Class, Cool, Culture, Fashion, Femininity, Gender Balance, History, Psychology, Roles, Social Conventions
Tagged America, autonomy, beauty salon, blue jeans, California, canvas cloth, ceremony, Civil War, Civilization: The West and the Rest, clothes, democratic values, designer jeans, economics, formality, freedom, gender performance, gold rush, Greenwich Village, high fashion, informality, jacob Davis, jeans, Levi Strauss, Manhattan, New York City, Niall Ferguson, sari, sex appeal, Soviet regime, status, strolling, The Personal Memoirs of Ulysses S. Grant, Union, urban protocol, USSR, work pants, young Russians
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“Intimacy”
“Intimacy” A few months ago, a malicious third party made a comment about my mother, whom she had never actually known, that created distance between my mother and me. It was a puzzling, obscuring distance my mother had never occupied … Continue reading
Posted in Art, Erotic Life, Eternity, Femininity, Friendship, Memoir, motherhood, relationships, The Problematic of Woman
Tagged a mother's love, afterlife communication, bereavement, breach of trust, death, distancing, dream visitations, dreams, emotional grounding, false accusations, gossip, I and Thou, intimacy, intuition, malice, Martin Buber, maternal, misrepresentations, mother and daughter, mourning, recognition, solipsism, tenderness
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